Intentional dating in practice.
Make choices that reflect your wishes and boundaries.
Understanding this approach
Write down what matters to you in a relationship: trust, availability and plans. Separate these needs from preferences you could approach more flexibly.
Putting it into practice
After a date, ask yourself how you felt. Your comfort and mutual wish to get to know each other matter more than a completed checklist.
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