What really brings two people together.
Explore shared values beyond degrees and job titles.
Start with everyday life
Two people can share an education without wanting the same life. Ask what makes a week satisfying, how each of you likes to rest or what you hope to learn. These questions reveal more concrete priorities than a list of qualities.
Notice how differences are welcomed
You do not need to agree on everything. Notice how you handle a disagreement, share a decision or respect a boundary. A relationship also grows through making room for another perspective.
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